My starter cymbals are all wrecked. is this my fault and should I upgrade?

I was also going to upgrade to All Paiste 101 ,1 x Paiste 16″ crash cymbal ,1 x Paiste 18″ Crash/ride ,1 x 14″ hi-hats ,1 x 20″ ride ,1 x Paiste 12″ Splash ,3 x Double braced boom stands. [...]