My starter cymbals are all wrecked. is this my fault and should I upgrade?

I was also going to upgrade to All Paiste 101 ,1 x Paiste 16″ crash cymbal ,1 x Paiste 18″ Crash/ride ,1 x 14″ hi-hats ,1 x 20″ ride ,1 x Paiste 12″ Splash ,3 x Double braced boom stands. 1x 14″ crash

breaking your cymbals is pretty normal especially if you drum hard. you may be better off sticking with cheap cymbals. if you really want to upgrade, i would wait until you’re going to play a show so you don’t spend a lot of money.